My Story
For a long time, prioritizing my peace felt like a foreign concept. The more my life became chaotic, the more I found myself craving it. But why? Simply put, I didn’t know how to stop. I didn’t understand the importance of pausing, of finding stillness amid the noise.
I grew up in a household that was filled with disconnect, physical, verbal, and emotional abuse at times, and abandonment. As I grew older, this foundation didn't work for me on my quest in finding peace. When I became a nurse, this really didn't work for me. I had compassion and empathy to a point that became all consuming. I poured so much of myself into the others I cared for because I couldn't do it for myself. If I did, I would have to deal with my childhood. I had to put aside any "life isn't fair" mantra and dive deep into the things that were no longer serving me. All of these beautiful moving parts that led me to present day in defining what peace is for me.
To be honest, my life still has its fair share of moving parts. The difference now is that I crave the slow down. I long for the present moments, the space to breathe, and the balance between my heart and my mind.
Out of all the people in my life, I never thought I would be the one to crave peace. But here I am. And the more I reflect, the more I realize that "never" is a strong word. Why not choose always instead of never? It’s all about embracing change and allowing ourselves the room to grow.
The Power of Inner Peace
I used to think that "inner peace" was just a trendy, hippy-fad term—something people discussed around campfires with guitars in hand. Well, if that’s the case, maybe I’ll grab my guitar and start singing a tune myself! The truth is, inner peace is real. It’s tangible, achievable, and more important than I ever imagined.
The shift to prioritizing peace was a game-changer for me. Taking a step back, I can now confidently say that peace has a rightful place in my life. I no longer seek permission to prioritize my well-being because I’ve come to realize: I don’t need anyone’s permission to do what’s best for me.
That’s a powerful lesson. We don’t need permission to feel better, to slow down, or to create a life that aligns with our true needs. That idea that we must ask for approval—whether it’s from others or society—is simply made up.
Write Your Own Story with Peace
It’s time to rewrite the narrative. You have the power to create a life full of new beginnings, balance, and, most importantly, peace. Your peace is your own to claim, and it’s not something you need to earn or wait for.
When you begin to prioritize your peace, you give yourself the freedom to live in alignment with your true self. You stop chasing the external noise and begin embracing the stillness within. That’s when the magic happens. Peace isn’t something to be found outside; it’s something to be cultivated within.
So, let go of the belief that peace is reserved for only a select few or that you need permission to prioritize it. Start today. Begin by embracing the present, slowing down, and connecting your heart and mind. Write your own story with peace, knowing that it’s your right to feel whole, balanced, and at ease.
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