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Growing With Grief

Updated: Nov 20


My Story

Becoming a widow at 34 with three young children was not something I ever thought would become my reality. Not me, not now, not ever. Yet, here I sit, 8 years later, happily re-married to an amazing husband and two more beautiful children to add to our motley crew.


Recalling that first year of our devastating loss is grossly foggy, but I don't mind. See, for me, survival mode was all I had to cope with certain things. I reached out, I went to therapy, I sought the comfort and honesty from other widows; I kept growing with my grief. And that's what I continue to do. If I need a day, I take a day; if I need a moment, I take a moment. I am my biggest cheerleader in the realm of self-love and compassion.


You are not alone here, friend. As you read through the following paragraphs, be present with what comes up to the surface and let it move through you. Give yourself the best go of grace you got and ride the wave.



Navigating Grief: How Health and Wellness Can Support Healing and Growth


Grief is a deeply personal and ever-evolving journey. It never truly leaves us, often remaining close, present, and constantly changing. Whether we experience grief from the loss of a loved one, a significant life change, or an internal shift, it manifests in many different forms for each of us.


Balancing everyday responsibilities while carrying the weight of grief can feel overwhelming. The emotional and mental toll can become all-consuming if left unchecked. However, there are powerful ways to navigate this complex experience, and one of the most effective approaches is through focusing on health and wellness.



The Role of Mindset in Managing Grief


One of the most important tools in managing grief is mindset. Grief can cloud our thoughts and emotions but shifting our perspective to a more balanced and compassionate mindset can help us process and heal. A positive mindset doesn't mean ignoring the pain; it’s about accepting grief as a part of life and embracing the possibility of healing. Practicing mindfulness, journaling, or talking with a support group can all play vital roles in cultivating a healthier outlook.



The Impact of Nutrition on Emotional Health


Nutrition plays a crucial role in our emotional health during times of grief. The food we eat directly affects our mood, energy levels, and overall well-being. Grief can lead to changes in appetite, making it difficult to maintain a healthy diet. However, nourishing our body with wholesome, nutrient-rich foods can support emotional resilience. Omega-3 fatty acids, vitamins, and minerals found in fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins can help combat the fatigue and brain fog that often accompanies grief.



The Importance of Physical Activity for Grief Relief


Physical activity is another essential component of managing grief. Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood boosters that can help alleviate feelings of sadness or anxiety. Even simple activities like walking, yoga, or stretching can help ground us in the present moment and relieve stress. By incorporating regular movement into your routine, you can improve your physical and mental well-being, making it easier to face the emotional challenges of grief.



Stress Relief Techniques for Emotional Balance


Stress relief is essential when navigating grief. Chronic stress can compound the emotional toll of grief, leading to burnout or feelings of overwhelm. Implementing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation can help regulate the body's stress response. Finding activities that calm the mind and restore balance, like listening to calming music, reading, or spending time in nature, can significantly reduce the impact of stress during grief.



The Power of Support in the Grieving Process


No one should go through grief alone. Support is key to healing. Surrounding yourself with understanding friends, family, or a professional counselor can offer a safe space to process emotions. Group therapy or grief support groups can also provide comfort and connection with others who are navigating similar experiences. Don't hesitate to seek support when you need it—it can make all the difference in your healing journey.



Health and Wellness as the Path to Healing


Ultimately, health and wellness provide the foundation for healing and growth through grief. Focusing on nurturing your mind, body, and spirit during times of loss can help you find peace, strength, and resilience. By paying attention to your physical health, managing your stress, and cultivating a supportive environment, you can pave the way for personal growth while embracing the grief process.

You are not alone in your grief. Embrace the journey with compassion and take steps to prioritize your health and wellness as you grow through it.



Embracing Healing Through Health and Wellness


Grief may never fully go away, but with the right tools, it can evolve into a process of growth, healing, and understanding. By nurturing your body and mind through healthy habits, you can navigate the difficult terrain of grief with more resilience and grace. Remember: healing is a journey, not a destination—and it’s one you don’t have to take alone.











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